If you are looking to increase the amount of
times you have sex in a month, week, or even day, it is important to look at
what people who have sex often are doing regularly! Surprisingly, it can be
very small things that lead to a happier and more fulfilling sex life. Here, we
detail important mindsets and habits that all highly sexual couples have or do
every day to keep their sex life exciting.
Couples who have a lot of sex are often
looking for any opportunity to have sex. This isn’t to say that they are having
sex in all their free time, but rather that they aren’t looking for the perfect
time to have sex.
Waiting until the kids move out, until all the
work is done, until the house is clean, etc. can mean that you wait for a long
period of time before having sex. Highly sexual couples are not looking for
perfect moments, they are finding time to fit sex into their daily routines.
When the kids are asleep, after an hour of work, or when they feel confident in
the progress of the household chores.
In addition to taking advantage of small
moments, highly sexual couples are not opposed to what we refer to as a
“quickie.” Quickies can be short, sweet, or sensual. Sex doesn’t always need to
be 20 minutes or an hour, it can be a small amount of time with still pleasing
both parties and having fun!
Highly sexual couples are confident, not only
in each other but also in themselves. They embrace what their body looks like,
and feels like. They know how to talk to their partner and communicate
Couples who have healthy amounts of sex are
100% trusting of each other. They are never second guessing their partners
actions, and all fights are resolved quickly with both parties feeling like
they met their needs.
If you or your partner has trust issues, the
sex can be rare. This is mainly due to the stress that suspicion and jealousy
causes, as well as the emotional detachment.
Highly sexual couples have a strong
connection, and that connection is often supplemented or created through their
sexual experiences with each other. All of these couples are confident that
their connection will last and will remain healthy.
Additionally, if you’re looking to rekindle a
connection or encourage your partner to be more connected with you on an
emotional level, sex is often the answer for these couples!
Sexual couples are just healthy relationships.
It’s as simple as that- two people who are willing to put work into their
relationship as well as their time in the bedroom. If you want to become more
sexual with your partner, or have sex more often, that starts outside of your
The more you are encouraging healthy
relationship habits in your day to day lives, the more you and your partner
will experience positive sex experiences, as well as encourage sex more often.